Been a long time. . .

By Christina Lacey
It has been a while since my last entry. I had thought of it often,  but may not have been in a place to share. So this becomes a lesson to myself, of course!! 

Even though we may not do everything we need or want to do, if we keep it in our minds as a priority, eventually it will happen.

This not only goes for hobbies or projects but our life in general. You may have dreamed as a kid to be a firefighter and 30 years later that still interests you. What's stopping you? There is a way to make it happen. You may make less money for a time, or not have the free time you're used to. Isn't that what we tell our kids...

           You can be whatever you want!

           Don't let anything get in you way
                of reaching for your goals!
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I see individuals and couples mostly. I enjoy working with my clients and learning about them and how they can be better as an individual and also to others around them.

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